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The Negotiated Wife 

By  Pastor L. Alan Moravek

The next kind of wife to think about is the negotiated wife. Never heard of her, eh?  You know, the making of deals with your wife: I’ll do such  and such if you’ll do this and that.  It is the putting into practice the give and take facet of marriage, the idea that marriage is 50-50 proposition. From whence did that thing spring forth?  I believe you will be hard pressed to find chapter and verse in the Bible to support it.

Since the husband’s love is to be patterned after our Savior’s love for the church, then marriage is not a 50-50 deal What is it then? If a percent can be properly assigned, it would be  100-0. What! That is ridiculous! It is? Did not God love us while we were yet sinners? Is not agape love such that  the one who loves like that  does so for the benefit of the one loved, whether or not there is any reciprocal actin in kind?

Knowing that God has ordained marriage leads me  to believe that God has created males and females to be different.  Isn’t that an earth-shaking revelation? Seriously in today’s gender perversion it is rather strange thinking.  What therefore is my point? God made man and woman to complement each other! A God-ordered union will function as a highly harmonized unit.  When a machine is tuned/timed, lubricated, and operated according to the designers’ specs, a man will often say, “ She’s purring like a kitten.”   When our marriages are ordered  according to  God’s  plan, with the husbands giving the Spirit-led direction and loving their wives as Christ loved the church, the wives will respond according to God’s design, and those marriages will purr like a kitten. 

Are you familiar with the negotiated wife? who might she be? In our nineteen years on the road we met plenty of them- yes, in our fundamental, independent, separated, King James totin’,  Baptist churches. The husband who has this kind of wife has adopted the command-and-demand approach to loving his wife. This the husband who never succeeded in becoming DI at parris Island ( boot camp for the USA Marine Corp.) and now he is seeking to fulfill that dream in his wife and children.

This  modus  operandi  has proven to be a superior method of  transforming new recruits into Jar heads and Leathernecks for what some regard as the greatest fighting  on the planet; however, Brother, if you one of the guilty ones, it will never work for your wife and family. That necessary discipline for Marines was not intended for ordering a home, and the sooner you learn that the sooner you’ll have a happy home.

you see, your home is the kind from which your children are longing to escape as soon as  they are of age, and presently they don’t care if they will ever see you again. Is that the kind of home you really desire? If not, then humble yourself, cease trying to be Rambo, and love your wife as Christ loved the church. You will be hard pressed to find even a thread of Scriptural support for the command-and-demand style. 

Why do I say that your wife is negotiated? That[‘s easy to explain. She has no say or input in making household decisions( neither do your children when they become of age): she’s good for nothing except to fix your meals, doing your laundry, mopping the floors… and bearing children; and if she dares to deviate one iota from one of your commands she is immediately with being a rebellious wife.

To bolster your position you have any number of like-minded dictatorial cockalorums, including a number of pastors, taking your side. Collectively, their thinking is this: When there is any turmoil in a marriage, the husband is always right, and the non-submissive wife (this latter designation is given!) is always the cause.  In principle, not in action for action, this command-and-demand husband is no different than a Muslim


Outside of salvation, your wife should be your most precious gift.”  (unknown)

to be continued…………………………..

N.B. :  For comments and further inquiry Pastor Moravek can be reached,   Email: prov1434true@gmail.com

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